Divorce is often painful, grueling and costly for couples. But for military families, the process can be even more challenging. According to recent reports by the U.S. Census Bureau, 4.8% of active-duty military members are divorced, a rate considerably higher than that of civilians in recent years.
The very nature of being in service fosters high-pressure lifestyles. Deployment’s unpredictability is a significant factor in the dynamics of a marriage and family life. This is even more evident in divorce. But if it’s any consolation, there is a way to ease into this difficult process.
Compassion over chaos
Sometimes relationships arrive at their natural end, and both parties agree that it’s for the best. Uncontested divorce with the assistance of the right attorney can help you and your partner to say ‘aloha’ with mutual respect.
But what about the children? Who gets to keep the house? With an uncontested divorce, you and your partner amicably agree on all the terms stated in the settlement. A peaceful approach helps minimize conflict and enables both parties to move forward.
Dealing with divorce in deployment
Being in service while going through a dissolution of marriage can be stressful. But knowing what to do during this time is key in creating a smoother transition for you and your family.
Child custody
The emotional well-being of your children during this time is of utmost priority. Create a custody plan that fits around deployment. Maintain regular communication to foster strong family connections.
Financial security
Be sure to review pension details and healthcare coverage, and consider how limited income during deployment may impact financial arrangements.
Legal protections
While default judgments are rare in uncontested divorces, it’s important to attend hearings to protect your rights. If you’re deployed, the Servicemembers’ Civil Relief Act (SCRA) allows you to request a delay in proceedings.
Long-term planning
Develop a plan to revisit custody arrangements and update legal documents, like wills and powers of attorney, after deployment.
Fairness in love and war
You can balance your duty to the country and your responsibility to your family when you know the right actions to take. Understanding your options and seeking the right legal advice will help make the process as smooth and fair as possible, easing the transition during one of life’s most challenging times.